As the population ages, many people are discovering that the role-reversal of having to look after their parents has its rewards along with burdens and baggage.
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The website agingcare.com came up with six specific things that make the work of caregivers something more than meeting an obligation.
“You give up your life to care for another,” the article states. “That is the ultimate act of love. It is a selfless, noble and generous thing to do, one that many people wouldn’t take on.
“So give yourself some credit. You are doing one of the most difficult, yet important jobs in the world. And you’re not getting paid to do it. Realize how important your role as a caregiver is.”
The list of “reasons to appreciate your job as caregiver” includes:
- Caregiving is uncharted territory. You probably were thrust into the role suddenly and were unprepared. There are no courses on how to be a good caregiver. But somehow, you figured it out.
- A Rewarding Experience. Even with a difficult parent, caregiving can be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life. When you’re in the day-to-day trenches of caregiving, it may not seem very rewarding. But looking back someday, you will probably think that caregiving was one of the most gratifying times of your life.
- Being There. One of the biggest fears that people have about death is a fear of dying alone. Because of you, your parent will never face that. Whether they are of sound mind, or have succumbed to dementia, they will understand on some level that you were with them when they needed you most.
- Precious Moments. Buried beneath the bad, you probably experience some special moments. They may be few and far between, but when they come along, they make your heart sing.
- You are Forever Changed. Caregiving changes your perspective on life. Nothing is meaningless during this time of intensive caring. Even under the most challenging circumstances, taking care of someone you love can transform your life forever.
- Making a Difference. Never underestimate the impact you have on others. You’re not going to get an award, and you may not even receive any acknowledgment for what you do, or what you sacrifice. But always remember: you are making a difference in someone’s life every day.
